What’s your SRQ?
It is a sign of the times that any hack like me with a blog eventually ends up quoting themselves. Have you noticed this? As more people have a way to express themselves on any given topic, more people also quote themselves these days. As if to increase one’s appearance of possessing insight or intellectual capital, we say things like, “I blogged about that over a year ago” or “Have you read my blog about that?” Like as if there is any likelihood that someone actually reads your blog. I used to laugh at people who did it, but I have to admit that I actually did it myself yesterday, and I will continue to be guilt of doing it on this blog.
Let me say now that although you feel smart when you reference yourself, you actually seem lame to whomever you are quoting yourself, particularly when you are quoting your blog. Think about what you are doing when you refer to a blog post you made last month: You are asserting that you could find no more worthy source to quote than yourself, which makes you appear either dubiously confident or too eager to establish your position as a valuable source.
In this sense, it is sort of like an inverse substitute for IQ to whomever is in the company of the self-absorbed self referencer. The more true it is that you are smart, the less you have to remind people that you are, so why the self referencing?
But blogging isn’t about knowledge or expertise. The blogosphere is extremely self-referential because it is driven by one of the primary motivators baked into human nature: Fame. So powerful is this motivator that for most people it is sufficient to be famous just to themselves. Having a collection of posts about random shit and then looking at it from time to time is a source of great joy to most bloggers. There is a pride of ownership that incents people to create more content. From now on, I will refer to the blogger tendency to self reference as the Self Reference Quotient, or SRQ. “Wow. Shawn sure has a high SRQ. I wonder if it is directly inverse to his IQ?”
Anyway, this post is about something else…
I had breakfast this morning with my friend Fabrice and we were talking about this and I realized that there is a huge benefit to this self-referential construct beyond the simple fame aspect, and it is going to be one of the cornerstones of the mobile media future.
Sorry to do it, but before I explain, first allow me to reference myself: (from Phone Call 2.0) “My children will not understand the concept of Phone Call 1.0 – they will live in a world where the media they create will represent them and act as an active proxy. Their friends will not understand the concept of a “phone number,” the artifact of an analog world long gone, and instead will have their own channel – a two-way location-aware media presence through which they will communicate with the world around them.”
I thought about this concept again after the small ballyhoo last week about the companies that promise they can get not only any phone number for any person, but the phone records for any person. This seems like it should be private information, doesn’t it?
Maybe. If the availability of the information were limited such that access required a subpoena, like to assist in the investigation of a crime, would it change your attitude about it?
In any case, people tend to think that their cell phone number is a very important piece of information that must be protected at all costs. Heaven forbid someone should get a hold of it and it got sold to every telemarketer on the planet. So what? I’ve got caller ID and I can just not answer the phone if I don’t recognize the number.
So you might say that your voicemail box would fill up then. So what? I stopped using my mobile voicemail last year after the “upgrade” that actually made it more difficult to use and less functional overall. (It used to be 1 = play/rewind, 2 = save and 3 = delete. Now it is a complex menu of things that makes the top few things harder to do. So I stopped using it. My outgoing message says, “Don’t bother leaving a message because I don’t check my voicemail. Send me an SMS instead and I’ll get back to you.” This system now works much better for me, because at a glance I can see all the people who have contacted me rather than wading through the time-consuming process of listening to voicemails.)
So you might say protecting your phone number is important because getting spam SMS would be the worst thing that could happen because for most phones there is no filtering and no way to delete without first opening the SMS. A 100% open rate is a spam marketer’s dream. On this point, I would agree. Furthermore, it is already happening in other parts of the world, and I predict that it will soon happen in the U.S., even if aggressive legislation makes it an undesirable practice.
When this happens, you will simply route around the problem, and the fame-driven blogosphere is the first step toward doing away with phone numbers altogether.
The importance of yourspace
MySpace is undeniably fun, but more importantly, it is undeniably useful. It provides me with a place where I can put all my stuff. That stuff defines me, and enables me to network with other people. If you are a stranger and come across my space, you get a sense of who I am based on my interests, media collection, blog, friends, etc. If you are a friend of mine, you might use my space to get my opinion on something or to see what kind of music I am listening to lately because you like my taste. Then you might contact me because my space is also a messaging hub where you can reach me via email or IM. I think a “click-to-call” feature on MySpace would be cool and insanely useful. Maybe an integration deal with Skype would accomplish that. You already see people posting their skype name on their spaces.
Media + Communication = Phone Call 2.0. If a picture is worth a thousand words, rather than call you to describe the beautiful sunset, I would prefer to just send you a picture, and now I can. Add a bunch of other stuff like my location, places that I have been and anonymous relay to whatever live communication channel I have open at the moment, whether it is my cell phone or mobile IM or whatever, and you achieve user-controllable presence where the hub of value is not the phone number. This is basically how Rabble works, and it works a little better than a web-based solution from a communication standpoint because it is always with you.
In fact, the phone number is the least important part of a personal media communication ecosystem that simply represents a termination point, or the last mile, of your ad-hoc communication network. If you click on “ShawnConahan” on Skype and it forwards to my phone number, which is masked to you, then you never have to know my phone number. In fact, why not just dynamically assign phone numbers for the purpose of completing a call that originates from some other interface or protocol?
Why the fame motivator matters
Because you are incented to put all of your stuff in one public space because it makes you famous to yourself, (and maybe to someone else) the unintended consequence of doing so is that you develop a fairly robust profile of yourself which makes you easier to find and generally more useful to other people. Then when you attach your communications hub to your space, you basically have an outward-facing filter that stages your relationships before they ever reach you. You want to contact me? First you need to be my friend. To be my friend you have to send me a friend request. Then I check out your space. If I think you are friend-worthy, I’ll allow you into the inner circle where people are able to communicate with me. Spam me once and you are banished forever. It is the media networking equivalent to caller ID, call waiting and call barring all rolled into one robust but amazingly simple concept.
Aside from direct communication with you, it may be sufficient to some people simply to see your collection of media or even just an opinion. To find restaurants in NY, I sometimes use menupages.com, and I always read dozens of opinions of total strangers. Those opinions are useful. More useful are the opinions of people you know or people you know are like you. I personally experienced this on my trip to New York this week. Rather than call Derrick directly for the name of that steak house that’s near the hotel, I went to his Rabble channel and there it was: He had put Ben Benson’s on the map and gave a little mini review of it.
Your desire to be famous is important in other ways. The more fans you collect, the greater your fame, and the more complete you want your space to be so that you can collect more fans. This incents you to actively solicit connections and the cycle is neverending. The benefit is that connections create value. The requirement is that you are always in control to a certain degree so that you can make sure your space is representative of the kind of fame you want. Many people complain about Blogger because it does not let you moderate trackbacks. You can turn them on or off, but that is all. When your personal space is polluted by a trackback to “Cheap V1AGRA! Online Pha r[macy L0raz!pam! Lowest pr!ces!” you are immediately disincented to create more compelling content and a more robust profile because you are attracting the wrong kind of fame.
In summary, the more media you create and the more you can consolidate your media and your communication in one place, the more connections you are likely to make and the more useful your various communication tools will be to you. Those tools will also be more flexible in general because they are really just termination points hanging off of your main personal media net that catches inbound communication requests and routes them accordingly (and when there is a newer, better tool, just plug it in and use it and discard the old one) and also acts as an outbound proxy for your live presence when it is not required.
